Dos And Donts For Happy Polyamorous Relationships

October, 12th 2015 Comments 6905 Views

Polyamory adds a significant layer of complexity atop the already complex job of managing a romantic relationship Building good poly relationships doesnt happen by accident; in addition to the normal challenges anyone in a traditional relationship will fa


When One Wife Isnt Enough: The Problems Of Polygamy

October, 12th 2015 Comments 36487 Views

Polygamy is the next battleground for marriage in the United States In fact, just last month a federal judge declared laws on the books in Utah that guard against polygamy to be unconstitutional The state may still outlaw plural marriages, but it cannot


6 Truths About Being A Second Wife

October, 12th 2015 Comments 16657 Views

1 I never expected to be a second wife No one does; no little girl longs to grow up and walk down the aisle to the strains of Here Comes the Second Bride, All Dressed in an Ivory Suit But here I am, married to a man who was married before I am the grown-


Secrets Of A Second Marriage: Beat The 8-Year Itch

October, 12th 2015 Comments 6612 Views

Every morning, Jacquelyn Beauregard Dillman stands on her front steps and waves to her husband of 29 years, Bob, as he drives off to work Every afternoon, the couple has what they call their lovey chat, just to check in Neither ever leaves the house witho


Why Does A Man Look For A Second Wife?

October, 9th 2015 Comments 217777 Views

An old Arabic proverb goes: Homes are secret places It is a proverb that we still hear quite often However, it does not seem to ring true any more The private concerns of home and family are so quickly publicized these days What used to be kept quiet is n


Finding The Beauty

October, 9th 2015 Comments 8359 Views

And if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with the orphangirls, then marry (other) women of your choice, two or three, or four but if you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly (with them), then only one or (the captives and the sl



October, 9th 2015 Comments 8718 Views

Justice and EqualityAs Allah (subhanahu wa taala) permitted polygamy, He stipulated and pre-conditioned justice and fairness in treatment, avoiding injustice and wrong practices against all wives Allahs Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) s



October, 9th 2015 Comments 10052 Views

In our attempt to codify Islamic law in India which is today quite loosely applied causing lot of problems to Muslim women, we interviewed number of prominent ulama One of our questions was should polygamy be regulated? With few exceptions most of them sa


Polygamy: Tis The Season?

October, 9th 2015 Comments 4020 Views

The legalization of gay marriage in six states and the continued efforts toward legalizing it in the rest of the country has opened the flood gates that have, for hundreds of years defined legal marriage in the United States as the union between one man a